The Who is More Important than the What

When it comes right down to it, every single learner is a person. And, as educators, so are we. We have families, so do they. Some of them have tenuous relationships and some have fulfilling ones. Like so many, there’s probably a mix in their lives when it comes to relationships, just like for us. Some of our learners remember some of the things that we teach them, but generally, they remember how they feel in our spaces. Overall, it’s more important to take care of the individual rather than the content knowledge or the curriculum or the pacing guide. Without putting the individual first, and recognizing their humanity, learning will not happen.

Think about COVID, and the beginning of the pandemic. Some students were worried. Some lost family. Some worked jobs to help financially. Most everyone was struggling to survive: mentally, emotionally, or physically. So if they took time to relax, to take a mental health period, to be sick or take care of another person, that was okay. The who - the person - is more important than the what - the subject matter. COVID laid bare what was always true - crises happen and they affect the individual and their performance at life. What COVID did was make all of us share in a collective crisis that affected, and still does affect, all of us. And, at the end of the day, we are all people.

In the long run, the time we spend with our learners is a blip in their lives. Learners will rarely recall the formulas, the strategies, the literature, or the dates, but they will remember how they felt during their time in the space with their educators. So, foundationally, when we make them feel good and supported, that matters. As teachers of children, we’re acting in loco parentis - and a parent must ensure that the individual is loved and cared for, no matter what. No matter our role in the educational space, we must always remember to lead with the ethic of care and remember to be good stewards to leave people and spaces better than when we found them. “Above all, do no harm.” Once we start to center our learners, and see who the learners are at the moment, then we can really create space for them to grow. School is not life, it’s just a part of it. 

During virtual school, I had a student who reached out to me in crisis, and I answered the call. I put the who ahead of the what. I called the parent, the head counselor, the department of student activities, and just asked them to do a wellness check. It was scary. Their situation read to me as a crisis. So, I had to jump in. She told me she was drowning, not waving. That experience centered this idea for me: a person is more important than any lesson we teach, any idea we articulate, any test we give.

It all comes back to Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs. The foundational elements need to be secured before we begin to build upwards. So, we center the who. When we think about vision and development and all of the acronyms of education, we have to remember to put humans first. We are in the business of humans and their development; we have to remember that they are what we are. We’ve been where they are. They’re doing what they do for a reason - everything is feedback, so keep the door open. Recognize that the who is always more important than the what.